I remember just a few years ago how big of a deal jeans were to me. I literally only wore super skinny black jeans, if they weren’t skinny I wasn’t wearing them. As time passed, I began wearing boyfriend/girlfriend jeans and eventually high waist mom jeans. Now, I practically walk past every pair of jeans in site when shopping. Don’t get me wrong, jeans are the easiest thing to throw on when all else fails but I’m okay with a little challenge when it comes to my outfits. Skirts, dresses, jumpers/rompers have been my go to’s lately. I feel less restricted and more myself.
Every now & then there’s a pair of jeans that catch my eye & make it impossible for me to turn away. Bell bottoms, culottes, any distressed and embroidered jeans always grab my attention & make me reconsider minimizing my jean collection. That clearly will explain my infatuation for these AH-mazing high waist-wideleg- distressed hem Free People jeans ! I was in awe from the moment I laid eyes on them. In 10 seconds I imagined all the different outfits I could put together based on this one pair of jeans.On this day I paired these babies with a orange button up blouse I stumbled upon at the Salvation Army, my new straw bag purchased at the Goodwill (I love the wooden handles), tan tasseled mules from Espirt, and a pair of STUNNING gold earrings purchased from Aldo’s! (Aldo’s? I asked myself the same thing)
Photos Taken By: Dani Rojas
I’m all about statement items that are also practical. I love being able to dress my outfits up or down and not be confined to one particular style. Be on the look out for me wearing these jeans with flats, sneakers, booties, you name it I’m wearing it.
If it isn’t easy to figure out I LOVE being a female, this post right here should finalize that thought. Yeah we have our tough days that I’m sure men will NEVER understand or be able to relate but that just makes us even more magical. Any who, when it comes to fashion, being a female is so much moreee intriguing. I mean we can kill it in the simpliest outfit when paired with the right killer heels & accessories but if you’re versatile like me, I like to throw on some kicks and an oversized men’s shirt, jacket, jeans, shorts, you name it! If it fits me then it works, men’s or women’s.
Versatility is a must when you’re a thrifter honestly, vintage items just don’t fit the same. For example, “mom jeans” aka 90’s style high waisted jeans run super-duper small, making it almost impossible to find the perfect pair if you have any type of hips or a booty. So shopping in the men’s area would definitely benefit anyone with any type of curves looking for vintage denim. If you’re going for the off the shoulder button up shirt/ jacket trend, you’re more than likely going to find the perfect fit in the men’s area as well. Let’s just face it, men can be good for something right ? ( haha just kidding)
On this particular day, besides my kicks, my entire fit was thrifted ! ( I love when that happens) I wore a button up cropped wrap top I purchased from the Goodwill thrift store, a pair of men’s linen pleated shorts purchased from the East Village Thrift Store, my favorite wicker basket bag also purchased from the Goodwill , & a pair of white Stan Smith Adidas I caught on super sale from Macy’s. I honestly love comfort, comfort will ALWAYS be key when it comes to me.
Social media has grown so much over the years into something bigger than I ever thought it would be to me. For new fashion bloggers, social media is our stepping stone to creating & exposing our own brand. But not only is it a big deal for bloggers it’s a big deal for stylist, personal trainers, makeup artist, nail techs, chefs, photographers, sheesh, I can go on for days, you get my drift. With all the positive that can be absorbed from social media comes the negative.
I’ve been seeing so much body shaming, racial and ignorant remarks, culture appropriation, bullying, the list goes on. In a perfect world there wouldn’t be any of this going on but unfortunately there is & it sucks ! I’ve allowed myself to put so many things out there that I never thought I would, without a second thought. I express my pride for being African American, I love complimenting other females around me I see perfecting their craft, I’m very open about my bargain/thrift shopping (I will never be a label whore), & I’m getting more and more comfortable with my own body !
Along the journey of discovering who you truly are you might make some changes that not everyone will agree with and that’s okay! I’ve accepted my imperfections & the ones I couldn’t accept I changed them, It’s that simple! However, I made these changes at my own digression, not because I seen all the “Instagram famous” girls doing it. If we had more people in the world focusing on how to improve/ love themselves we wouldn’t have so much hate & shaming going around. It’s a-okay to admire someone but put yourself on, reach for your own goals, & tell yourself everyday I am exactly who I was meant to be. People will slowly start to notice your authenticity & appreciate your message. Real recognizes real.
Floral Print Dress– Lucy Paris (Bloomingdales)
Black Laceup Booties – Macy’s (On major sale right now !!)
Ever felt defeated ? Like no matter what you do, no matter how positive and hopeful you are, you find yourself in a situation that just seems to get worst ? Well if you don’t you’re clearly not human and need to tell me what planet you’re living on. Every now and then I get this feeling inside and it truly sucks ass! For a period of time last year I was thrown so many curve balls I should’ve thrown in the towel by now. However, I promised myself this year I would try to do and think differently when I start to get this defeated feeling.
What a perfect blog post when I’m feeling this exact way at this exact moment ! Often times I feel like we focus so much on the negativity in our lives or situations we can’t change overnight instead of gearing our attention towards our blessings. To relieve myself from this sucky feeling I usually find happiness in shopping. As I’m shopping, I instantly feel a sense of gratification that I’m able to provide for myself, which then makes me appreciate having a job, even if it’s not quiet the dream job. As I’m looking at my new purchases and creating looks, I am reminded how awesome my blogging path is going & what great experiences are soon to come.
Photos Taken By: Danilsa Rojas
Little by little each situation I might’ve once been stressed out about is becoming less and less IMPORTANT. You are in control of what makes you tick, what grinds your gears & what’s able to stress you the f*ck out BUT if we just took a moment or two before each and everyone of these “tragedies” & accept it as a milestone, knowing “this too shall pass” life will get a little easier. I promise
White Off The Shoulder Blouse – Do+Be
Skinny Jeans – Blank Nyc
Tan Suede Tassel Mules – Esprit (On super Sale now)
Straw Hat – St. Marks Street
Chokers/Necklaces – Aldo’s
Multi Colored Bracelet – Goodwill Thrift Store
If you’re anything like me, using and abusing trends is what you probably do best. I loveeee a good trend but what I love more is adding my own twist to it, that’s where the thrift shopping aspect comes in.
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